It’s a tough world out there especially if you’re on your own and looking for some companionship but haven’t the faintest clue where to begin.
Men in their 20’s and 30’s often travel in packs and that makes meeting other people a lot easier as there’s always friend’s friends and so forth.
If you’re an older man who was recently made single the game has changed, your friends have grown up and are probably contently sitting at home on their couch watching reality shows with their wife and kids. Now is the time you have to call the shots and go into the field like you have a plan. Here are a few suggestions to help smooth the ride.
You Are Not Alone
Don’t think you are alone since you travel in a wolf pack of one and rarely have company on your Friday nights. Most singles do the exact same thing and enjoy it. Make sure to enjoy your alone time. Try involving yourself in the activities you’ve always wanted to enjoy but either never had time or your partner didn’t want to be involved with. You will feel gratification for doing what you want and it will also give you something to chat about when you meet people.
Dress to Impress
Looking suave is important when you want to appear approachable and friendly. Walking
into a crumby neighborhood bar wearing your old John Deere shirt with your Metallica hat is probably not going to win you any classy conversations. Try dressing simple with a black shirt and jeans (no running shoes allowed!) or wear khakis and a button down. Keep it simple and it will pay off. Don’t wear too much cologne either. That is a huge turn off and just a nasty thing to do to people who are sensitive to strong smells. Dab a tiny amount of cologne on your neck a while before you go to your destination, don’t dab a lot of bathroom cologne all over your body at the crappy bar!
Don’t Be Afraid
It’s normal to be a little nervous about meeting new people but don’t let your nerves get to you. It’s tough for anyone to meet new people. Just be yourself and the rest will come to you. Once you meet one person you will likely meet many more through that person. With women, just be friendly and pleasant. No overloading them with compliments or cheesy pick up lines. Just act natural and be prepared for success. Always be prepared for a fun filled romp in the sheets by packing your Viagra or taking daily Cialis just in case the moment arises!
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