Whether you are looking forward to your third date or your third decade together, anticipation is always going to linger when you snuggle in for a good night kiss. There will be differences, of course, between those first dates and the first nights after you fall asleep in your rocking chair at 8pm, but who cares about age. Making your partner say, “wow” is something that can and will happen at any age. It’s simple not to ever get bored with your partner or sucked into your daily routine. The answer is: Just Don’t Let it Happen.
20’s
Maybe this is your first date with the girl of your dreams, or maybe it’s the first date you’ve ever had. Either way, be prepared to let go of your fears and just have fun. Try to come up with some fun ideas for the evening. Picture what you would appreciate and try to strike up enough compassion to treat her the way you would want to be treated. Smelling nice is important. Don’t go crazy on your Polo cologne or your end up with a sneezing and gasping (in a bad way) date. Romantic outdoor dates are always great this time of year. It’s just chilly enough to get your snuggles on.
30’s
So, you’ve been married for a few years and have fallen into a bit of a rut of having your days and night planned out each week with exactly the same things. You eat at the same place every Friday, she reads her book from 10:30 until 11:00 pm then you both go to sleep, and so on. Try to make one day or night a week your date night. Each week you should take turns surprising each other with a date and just go out and have a blast. It’ll keep it exciting and lighten up the rest of the mundane week.
40’s
Dinner is at 6, the kids do homework until 8, bath time is at 8:30, Letterman comes on at
10:30 and bedtime follows that. Welcome to your 40’s. It doesn’t have to be like this. Get a sitter one night a week and continue your date night program. If you’re not up for that or sitters just aren’t that easy to come by, try building a small picnic area in your backyard to sneak out to when the kids go to bed, or meet each other in the park on the weekdays before school lets out. Keep the action alive.
50’s+
Ah, the Golden Years… your kids are off causing mischief at college and coming home on the weekends to consume your stock of food and destroy your laundry room. Take a drive with your love during the week or go on an outdoor adventure to somewhere you have never been. Dress up, flirt, and bring a blanket to snuggle under the stars on later. Maybe get a little friskier than usual and pack a few Viagra for a two day trip to a secluded log cabin in the mountains. Stand around in your bathrobes on the front porch sipping cocoa. Sounds nice, huh? These are all ways of which to hear her say, “wow”.
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