Edited By Brian Bujdos
eDrugstore.com reached out to 10 professional coaches who specialize in dating, relationships, and even marriages, in order to find out the best ways to make a love connection. Many of the coaches are doctors or PhDs.
Some of the coaches shared the same sentiments with regard to "being yourself," but many coaches put interesting new spins on the best approach to find a love mate.
Read on for some helpful advice… and feel free to click on the websites of each of the coaches to learn more.
What Is the Best Way to Create a Love Connection?
Natalie Robinson Garfield – The Sense Connection
By determining your a primary sense mode channel (vision? hearing? touching?) and surmising your target’s primary sense mode channel, you can speak their language and appeal to their interests. You can ignite interest and help them to feel known.
Cherie Burbach – At the Coffee Shop
Embrace the different ways to possibly meet someone today. That includes online dating, lunch dating, and singles activities. Don’t shy away from a method thinking it is “too desperate.” Don’t judge. Instead, go forward with the knowledge that you are taking an active part in your dating life.
Mary Pender Greene – Your Self-Relationship
Loving yourself, or at least having a generally positive opinion of yourself, is a pretty important prerequisite to having a healthy relationship with someone else. While you may not always feel it… you are absolutely worth dating and loving… When you’re feeling good about yourself, you give off an “I’m attractive” vibe – it’s evident in your manner, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk about yourself.
Karissa Thomas – I Need a Shift
Be selfless! To be truly selfless means to be unselfish. It means not being so preoccupied with one’s self that one is threatened by the other’s existence. When being selfless in courting, you open yourself up to a pure side that is highly attractive to another. Embracing who you are allows you to grow and become one with your partner.
Katherine MacDonald – Try Sweet Talk
We spend our lives trying to fit in, but online dating is about trying to stand out. So we need to feature all the silly, quirky, charming and unique aspects of our personality. Contrary to how what you’ve learned from parents, teachers and employers – try not to fit in. Be proud of what makes you different. This sounds like a trite tip, but it’s very important. When I’ve written profiles based on unique traits, it’s amazing how good people feel about themselves, and how special/unique they realize they are.
Laura Benko – Make Space for a Partner
In singles looking for a relationship, 9 out of 10 times, I go into their home and I see single imagery everywhere. A single chair in the corner, collectibles arranged in singular patterns and photographs or artwork of solitary figures. Try to observe your surroundings with fresh eyes and notice where this might occur. Then, start to pair up your items while setting your new intention of an openness to let a prospective partner into your home… Start to create the space for them in your home.
Lesli M. W. Doares – Blue Print for a Lasting Marriage
As a marriage specialist, my best tip for creating a love connection is to be your authentic self – real intimacy is based in truth not pretense.
Melody Brooke – Landmines to Goldmines
Being aware of how we impact our partner every day, in every interaction, makes a huge difference… Spend time together helping each other with things that matter to each other, spend time playing together, dancing, laughing. That’s what bonds a couple and sparks great passions.
Elizabeth R. Lombardo – A Happy You
Happiness is not only the result of a good relationship, but is also a key cause of good marriages. The mistake most people make, though, is expecting the other person to make you happy. A happy you will spark positivity into any relationship- whether it is brand new or decades long. Happiness is a skill that anyone can learn.
Susanne M. Alexander – Marriage Transformation
We truly begin to love our partners when we can see reflected in their hearts, souls, words, and actions their enduring character strengths. When we consistently see and experience truthfulness, courage, patience, kindness, compassion, respect, thoughtfulness, and more in our partners, we feel love and attraction to them.
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