When a man begins to find it difficult to consistently achieve an erection, it can be easy to clam up. erection issues are considered something of a taboo subject, and many men are hesitant to disclose that they’re having problems. But by shutting your partner out of the conversation, you’re hurting yourself, your relationship, and, quite possibly, your erection. Here are some tips to opening up to your partner about your problem.
Be honest: Don’t beat around the bush, don’t dance around the subject; when it comes to erection problems, honesty is the best policy. Be upfront with your partner about what is happening, and talk with them about potential causes.
Don’t assign blame: Erection problems can be caused by a number of factors, such as stress, life choices, and mental health. When the problem rears it’s head, you’ll want to get to the root of the problem. But don’t blame your partner. This condition can affect their life, too, so by pushing the blame on them, you’ll be hurting them and you risk losing them.
Keep your partner in the loop: In a recently conducted survey, 15% of men polled said they would consider taking Viagra without telling their partner if they developed erection problems. While it can be tempting to hide the problem, that would just cause long term problems. Include your partner every step of the way in the decision making process. By shutting them out, you could worsen your condition and hurt your relationship.
Don’t be embarrassed: Erection problems are viewed by many as a shameful condition. Men who can’t get it up think they’re less of a man, and the last thing they want to do is let their significant other know they have a problem. But by swallowing your pride and letting them know, you can strengthen your relationship and find someone to support your during these difficult times.
Evan Hopkins is a 24 year old writer operating out of Atlanta, GA. When he isn’t writing, he enjoys reading books, drinking coffee, and folk music.