{"id":2897,"date":"2016-07-31T16:03:03","date_gmt":"2013-07-31T16:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.edrugstore.md\/blog\/?p=2897"},"modified":"2013-07-31T16:03:03","modified_gmt":"2013-07-31T16:03:03","slug":"things-not-to-say-l0731","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments\/things-not-to-say-l0731\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Things You Shouldn\u2019t Say to Your Husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of Every Day Love<\/i><\/a>, says many women are insulting their husbands without even knowing it. To avoid relationship problems she suggests never saying these three things to your hubby:<\/p>\n

\u201cYou were great in bed.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

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Do you say any of these statements to your husband?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

You might not want to hurt your husband\u2019s feelings, but you don\u2019t want to lie. Women want to make others feel good, it\u2019s in their nature, but it\u2019s not a good idea to lie about intimacy.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe definition of intimacy is letting another person see your vulnerabilities,\u201d says Ford. If things are not-so-hot between the sheets, talk about your love life in a positive way. Start by talking about the things you do like and make suggestions to spice things up.<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease watch the kids, but don\u2019t do (fill in the blank) with them.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

You have to give your husband room to learn and grow as a dad. Your way of parenting isn\u2019t the only way. Plus, if you\u2019re setting more rules for your husband than you do for your child, it could have long-term implications.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf he always feels like he\u2019s wrong, he\u2019ll only start to disconnect emotionally.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re just like your father.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

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Can you think of other things you shouldn’t say to your husband? Tell us in the comment section below.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

This smart remark is damaging. Your husband will likely believe he is exhibiting the worst qualities of the man who raised him. Don\u2019t belittle your man, just talk with him openly. If he does something that mimics his dad, get to the point without an insult. For example, if your hubby never makes dinner and his father never made dinner, just say, \u201cI\u2019m running a little late from work today, could you help me out by popping a pizza in the oven tonight?\u201d\u00a0 This way you\u2019re getting what you want without the sting of an insult.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of Every Day Love, says many women are insulting their husbands without even knowing it. To avoid relationship problems she suggests never saying these three things to your hubby: \u201cYou were great in bed.\u201d You might not want to hurt your husband\u2019s feelings, but you don\u2019t want to lie. Women […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_autoblog_aioseo_focus_keyphrase":"","_autoblog_aioseo_title":"","_autoblog_aioseo_description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t