{"id":27159,"date":"2019-07-24T14:37:00","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T14:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/?p=27159"},"modified":"2019-07-24T14:37:00","modified_gmt":"2019-07-24T14:37:00","slug":"the-relationship-between-ed-and-mens-body-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/erectile-dysfunction\/the-relationship-between-ed-and-mens-body-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"The Relationship Between ED and Men’s Body Confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"

What comes to mind when you think of an ideal man? You know, the masculine type? Chances are you\u2019ve pictured one of the superheroes like the Aquaman. Or maybe an athlete, like LeBron James.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

In our modern imagination a perfect man is tall, lean and muscular. We see him on covers of magazines and huge billboards on the way to work. It\u2019s not just women today who compare themselves to supermodels and worry about the extra pounds.<\/p>\n

Studies reveal men’s body image issues<\/h3>\n

A big 2016 study<\/a> of men\u2019s self-esteem revealed high levels of dissatisfaction with physical appearance, weight and muscularity. Gay men were a bit more worried about their looks than heterosexual guys. In both groups overweight or obese men were the least satisfied with their reflection in the mirror.<\/p>\n

Another British study<\/a> pointed out that men who internalized the \u201cathletic appearance-ideal\u201d had more body image issues than those who did not have the tendency to compare themselves to muscular men.<\/p>\n

Low body confidence may lead to ED<\/h3>\n

What does it all have to do with ED? Low self-esteem can trigger so-called performance anxiety. The more you worry about your looks in bed, the more stressed you become. All this tension may lead to erectile difficulties.<\/p>\n

A vicious circle begins. After the first episode of ED, you are even more concerned about every possible aspect of your intimate relationship. The lack of six-pack abs turns into a silent drama. More stress ensues and erectile problems return.<\/p>\n

Is there a way out of this trap? Sure, you might think. I need to go on a diet and hit the gym. If I look better, I\u2019ll stop worrying about it and my ED will be a thing of the past. Well, you may be right. But only partly right.<\/p>\n

Ways to improve your self-esteem<\/h3>\n

Even if you loose the extra pounds and build those killer pecs, your well-being will always depend on external factors. What happens when you get sick and can no longer continue to work out? What happens when you age and your body starts changing, despite all your best efforts?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Get real about your goals. It might take years to look like a bodybuilder.\u00a0<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The best way to feel good about yourself is to ditch the comparisons and perfectionism. Be honest with yourself – what do you really want? Is this your life\u2019s goal to look like Dwayne Johnson? Do you want to look like him for yourself? Or to attract your partner or lover? Does s(he) even find this type handsome? Have you ever asked?<\/p>\n

If you feel losing weight and toning your muscles will make you happier, by all means go ahead but be realistic. If you\u2019re currently overweight and out of shape, getting to bodybuilder level might take you years. What are you going to do with your life and relationship in the meantime?<\/p>\n

Dealing with ED when you have body image issues<\/h3>\n
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Focus on intimacy while you work out your body image issues<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Significant change takes time. It doesn\u2019t mean your sex life has to be put on hold because of anxiety-related ED. Using medication such as Viagra to achieve and maintain an erection will help you reduce stress levels in intimate contacts. One less thing to worry about.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s very likely that your erectile difficulties are temporary. Once you\u2019ve worked on your self-confidence and gained some healthy distance from unrealistic ideals, you may realize you don’t need treatment anymore. But in times of crisis, it may be the best solution for you and your partner.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve never used erectile treatment before, talk to your doctor or click here<\/a> to visit our Erectile Dysfunction page and consult one of our licensed physicians anonymously online. They will help you choose the best solution so you can start enjoying intimacy again.<\/p>\n

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What comes to mind when you think of an ideal man? You know, the masculine type? Chances are you\u2019ve pictured one of the superheroes like the Aquaman. Or maybe an athlete, like LeBron James.\u00a0 In our modern imagination a perfect man is tall, lean and muscular. We see him on covers of magazines and huge […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":27160,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_autoblog_aioseo_focus_keyphrase":"","_autoblog_aioseo_title":"","_autoblog_aioseo_description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[22],"class_list":["post-27159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-erectile-dysfunction","tag-ed"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t