{"id":16133,"date":"2015-09-14T19:27:00","date_gmt":"2015-09-15T02:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.accessrx.com\/blog\/?p=16133"},"modified":"2015-09-14T19:27:00","modified_gmt":"2015-09-15T02:27:00","slug":"is-your-bedroom-sex-ready-m0815","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments\/is-your-bedroom-sex-ready-m0815\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Bedroom Sex-Ready?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Make
Make your bedroom a sanctuary from the outside world.<\/figcaption><\/figure> You don\u2019t necessarily have<\/em> to have an inviting bedroom to enjoy sex there, but it wouldn\u2019t hurt.<\/p>\n

Many partners \u2013 particularly those who have been together for many years \u2013 can easily find their vibe thrown off by piles of laundry awaiting attention, a jar of olives that somehow didn\u2019t make it back to the kitchen, or a flimsy lock that may or may not keep the kids out. Taking the bit of extra time to make your bedroom inviting and personal can help you focus on what\u2019s important when you and your partner get it on: each other.<\/p>\n

The bedroom is not a shared area of the home the way your front foyer or living room is, but that implied \u201cseparateness\u201d of the bedroom gives you license to create the perfect space for you and your partner, where both of you can feel relaxed, comfortable, and not distracted by the many non-romantic aspects of life. Here are some ideas on how you can make your bedroom the inviting haven you need to enjoy intimacy with the person you love.<\/p>\n

Decorate With Both Partners in Mind<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if one of you doesn\u2019t care at all about interior design, if one person makes all the decorating decisions, the room will naturally feel more like his or hers than both of yours. Both of you should feel as if you have an equal stake<\/a> in your room. This may involve mixing elements that are meaningful to each of you, but at the very least it should involve equally inviting bedside elements on each side of the bed, even if they\u2019re not a matched set. You don\u2019t want one partner walking into his or her own bedroom and feeling like a guest in their partner\u2019s room.<\/p>\n

Get a Decent Lock<\/strong><\/p>\n

For women in particular, \u201cmental deactivation<\/a>\u201d is important in enjoying sex, and it\u2019s hard to do this when you\u2019re worried about kids (or roommates or pets) overcoming the flimsy lock on your bedroom door. You probably don\u2019t need a deadbolt, but a decent spring lock that can\u2019t be jiggled open or operated with a hair pin can be a worthwhile investment in your sex life. Knowing that the worst interruption you\u2019ll face will be a knock can be just the thing that lets couples relax and make the most of their time alone together.<\/p>\n

As Much as Possible, Keep Technology to a Minimum<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re used to carrying phones and tablets with us everywhere, and these devices are widely used as alarm clocks, e-readers, and music or video streaming devices. Ideally, these devices shouldn\u2019t be within reach when you and your partner are intimate together. At the very least, place them across the room or in your closet.<\/p>\n

Television is another piece of technology that can make it all too easy to avoid sex. Sure, it can be fun to snuggle up on a cold night and watch a movie, but that can turn into an everyday routine that drains the intimacy out of your bedroom. As much as possible, you should save your video watching for the living room, which also has the advantage of being a setting where the whole family can enjoy a show together. What\u2019s more, eliminating excess technology from the bedroom can help you sleep better<\/a> too.<\/p>\n

Appeal to Multiple Senses<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aside from being visually appealing, a bedroom that appeals to all the senses helps couples enjoy sex more. A simple dimmer switch for your lights gives you control so that you have sufficient visual stimulation, plus the feeling of closeness that dimmer lighting inspires. Choose light bulbs with a \u201cdaylight\u201d spectrum, which mimics natural light and isn\u2019t unflattering the way many fluorescent bulbs are.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to drown your room in scent to make it smell appealing. In fact, overdoing it could be a distraction, particularly if one of you suffers from allergies. Mostly, you want your room to be clean so that it smells clean. Two or three drops of your favorite essential oil on your pillows can make your room more appealing to the sense of smell without overwhelming you with scent.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll probably not want to shed all your clothes if your bedroom is freezing. And excessive heat can keep you from wanting much physical closeness. Don\u2019t feel guilty for cranking the AC up when it\u2019s hot and humid. You can always change the thermostat back later. If you turn back the thermostat on winter nights, a small, silent oil-filled radiant space heater costs about $30 and can be just the thing to make your room more comfortable.<\/p>\n

A good playlist<\/a> can enhance closeness and put you into a psychologically good space. But if you use your phone or tablet to stream music, make sure you commit to not checking it should someone call or text. If you doubt your ability to do this, put your phone in airplane mode (You may have to manually set it to pick up Wi-Fi in this case). You can always check your messages later.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"The
The right music can make your bedroom that much sexier.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Don\u2019t Save the Best Design Elements for the Living Room<\/strong><\/p>\n

Couples \u2013 particularly those without a lot of money \u2013 tend to focus their decorating ideas and dollars on shared areas of the home. There\u2019s absolutely nothing wrong with having an inviting entertainment room, dining room, or kitchen, but make sure you honor your bedroom by outfitting it with care. This may mean placing beautiful artwork on the walls, splurging for well-designed bedside tables, or investing in high quality, natural fiber sheets with high thread counts<\/a>. Your bedroom is a special place, and deserves better than \u201cleftover\u201d furniture from the rest of the house, or from your days as a student.<\/p>\n

But Don\u2019t Let Your Bedroom Become Too Cluttered<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quality is more important than quantity in creating a serene, inviting bedroom. Clutter is distracting and hides your bedroom\u2019s design. Plus, nobody wants to smell the pile of socks that has accumulated since you got behind on laundry. Part of having an uncluttered bedroom is using smart storage for keeping things organized. Ultimately, however, all the organizational tools and containers in the world can\u2019t make up for the simple fact of having too much stuff. Maybe it\u2019s time for a purge of your belongings. Goodwill or other charity stores would probably love to have it if it\u2019s clean and in reasonably good condition.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

Does a beautiful bedroom guarantee good sex? Of course not, but a cluttered, disorganized bedroom filled with clashing colors and distracting technology can take some of the fun out of sex. Making your room attractive to the senses helps you relax, and shows that you value your relationship by making your most intimate shared space appealing to both of you.<\/p>\n

At eDrugstore.com<\/a>, we dispense name brand prescription medications including Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis. We\u2019re committed to competitive prices, outstanding online security, and providing the best possible customer experience with each order.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You don\u2019t necessarily have to have an inviting bedroom to enjoy sex there, but it wouldn\u2019t hurt. Many partners \u2013 particularly those who have been together for many years \u2013 can easily find their vibe thrown off by piles of laundry awaiting attention, a jar of olives that somehow didn\u2019t make it back to the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16134,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_autoblog_aioseo_focus_keyphrase":"","_autoblog_aioseo_title":"","_autoblog_aioseo_description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[659,230],"class_list":["post-16133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments","tag-bedroom","tag-sex"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t