{"id":14683,"date":"2016-04-29T10:29:01","date_gmt":"2014-04-29T17:29:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.accessrx.com\/blog\/?p=14683"},"modified":"2014-04-29T10:29:01","modified_gmt":"2014-04-29T17:29:01","slug":"rescue-sex-life-l0429","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments\/rescue-sex-life-l0429\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Tips to Rescue Your Boring Sex Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Is your sex life a little boring? Read these tips from the “Love Doctor.”<\/figcaption><\/figure> Is your sex life in a major rut? Many couples, especially couples that have been together for a long time, seem to repeat performances. The same foreplay, the same positions, the same place. Sound like your sex life? If so, it\u2019s time to shake things up a bit.<\/p>\n

Terri Orbuch<\/a>, a relationship therapist, offers these five tips to rescue your sex life:<\/p>\n

1. Let\u2019s talk about sex, baby<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019ve been married for 30 years, you can\u2019t read your partner’s mind. You might be able to anticipate what your wife wants in her in coffee every morning, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can anticipate which position she\u2019s looking forward to later.<\/p>\n

You have to talk about it, Orbuch says.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen you do discuss sex, always focus on the positive. Instead of talking about what your partner doesn\u2019t do to excite you, say what he or she can do,\u201d she says. \u201cFor example, you might mention that you would find it extremely erotic if your partner initiated lovemaking or you tried a little role-playing.\u201d<\/p>\n

2. Change something \u2013 anything<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even the smallest change to your sex routine can spice it up. Skip the bedroom and have sex in the kitchen. Order a Kama Sutra book and try out some new positions. Try some lingerie, candles, massage oils \u2013 anything that you don\u2019t normally do, Orbuch suggests.<\/p>\n

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New experiences can drastically improve your sex life.<\/figcaption><\/figure>3. Make a date \u2013 frequently<\/strong><\/p>\n

Orbuch, who is known to her clients as the \u201clove doctor,\u201d suggests scheduling sex. Many couples assume that this will take the fun out of it, but Orbuch says that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

“What it can do is take the pressure off one of you to initiate and give you both something to look forward to,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

\u201cAdditionally, having regular sex creates a positive feedback loop: Cranking the hormones leads to more desire, which leads to more sex, and more sex can have dramatic positive effects on a marriage. Couples who have done this report having more emotional intimacy and tolerance toward each other.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Is your sex life in a major rut? Many couples, especially couples that have been together for a long time, seem to repeat performances. The same foreplay, the same positions, the same place. Sound like your sex life? If so, it\u2019s time to shake things up a bit. Terri Orbuch, a relationship therapist, offers these […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_autoblog_aioseo_focus_keyphrase":"","_autoblog_aioseo_title":"","_autoblog_aioseo_description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t