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Although it\u2019s more traditionally associated with women, men are also highly affected by their mental baggage and emotional engagement during sex.<\/p>\n Although it\u2019s more traditionally associated with women, men are also highly affected by their mental baggage and emotional engagement during sex.<\/p>\n
In fact, erectile dysfunction is sometimes caused simply by nervousness or anxiety, lack of interest, or feeling disconnected from one\u2019s partner.<\/p>\n
To combat the unfortunate side effects of not being emotionally interested in sex, it\u2019s helpful to think about what your desires are when you do choose to have sex, as well as your reasons for having sex.<\/p>\n
Your Approach to Sex<\/strong> Or maybe it\u2019s because you\u2019re really into your partner, because you find her captivating, or because you feel incredibly close to her.<\/p>\n What\u2019s your reason? If you think about this more often, you can start to say no to sex when you don\u2019t really want it. It sounds crazy, but you should acknowledge your right to not want sex sometimes, for no particular reason.<\/p>\n Once you start taking ownership of your sexual desire, believe it or not, you\u2019ll actually experience stronger feelings of passion and have them more often. When you do decide to have sex, it will be better because you have strong motivation to do so.<\/p>\n Eventually, the buildup of positive feedback causes your body to respond better to sex because it knows it can expect a great experience.<\/p>\n Uncovering Your Desires<\/strong> What happens? Where are you? Who\u2019s there? Where do things go, and in what order? What do you try that you\u2019ve never tried before?<\/p>\n Coming up with these answers can make it easier to communicate with your loved one. Most people\u2019s desires are perfectly acceptable. It\u2019s just that we don\u2019t take the time to find out what they are.<\/p>\n But please, try bringing them out in the open and enjoy the excitement and play of breaking the old routine. Conclusion<\/strong> Give it a try, let us know what you think, and tune in for the next article in our series on improving your sex life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Although it\u2019s more traditionally associated with women, men are also highly affected by their mental baggage and emotional engagement during sex. In fact, erectile dysfunction is sometimes caused simply by nervousness or anxiety, lack of interest, or feeling disconnected from one\u2019s partner. To combat the unfortunate side effects of not being emotionally interested in sex, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":270,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_autoblog_aioseo_focus_keyphrase":"","_autoblog_aioseo_title":"","_autoblog_aioseo_description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-std-sexually-transmitted-diseases-treatments"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t
\nThink about it. Why are you having sex? Because that\u2019s just what married couples do? Because you\u2019ll be relaxed afterward? Because you feel like you should, since it\u2019s the end of your date night?<\/p>\n
\nAnother important part of reigniting chemistry is to ask yourself very deliberately what you really want. It can be helpful to write down your answers, or visualize a scene playing out in your mind\u2019s eye.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.edrugstore.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Man-in-thought.jpg\")
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\nIt\u2019s not always comfortable at first, but working on your sex life can be the perfect way to make the most of your Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, or Staxyn prescription.<\/p>\n