Highlights
- Our carefully selected best sex sites offer science-based adult sex education.
- Learn from bloggers and podcasters who discuss up-to-date topics and sexual interests.
- Resources on men’s sexual health include erectile dysfunction tips.
- Some sites for couples have rich sections on intimacy and sexual communication.
Where did you learn about sex? Most people get their information from all the wrong sources. The good news is that you can learn how to be a great lover, and the internet can help with that — if you know where to look.
Here, we’ve rounded up 15 best sex sites for men who want to up their bedroom game.
1. Savage Love
Dan Savage is a pioneer of adult sex education. His sexual Q&A column and podcast “Savage Love” are hugely popular. Whatever your intimate concern (and sexual or gender identity), you will find the answers here, in simple and witty language.
2. Smart SAA
If you suspect you’re suffering from erectile dysfunction or another intimate problem, this website from the Sexual Advice Association offers free online quizzes that give you initial answers.
Remember: To get a definitive ED diagnosis, you must contact a doctor. Only a medical professional can prescribe ED medications, such as Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis.
3. British Association of Urological Surgeons
This website has a section in plain language, written for patients. So, if you’re worried about erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or have another concern about your penis or testicles, consult their “I think I might have…” page where you will get simple explanations of common sexual problems.
4. Kenneth Play: The Sex Hacker’s Guide
Kenneth provides no-nonsense, explicit sex education you wish you received as a young man. He calls himself a sex hacker and says he’s living proof that a guy with an average penis can excel in bed. In his blog, he teaches you how to master the art of pleasuring a female partner.
5. Dr. Marty Klein: Sexual Intelligence Blog
Dr. Klein is a therapist who talks about sex with a big dose of humor. After decades of counseling couples, he knows what works for low desire and bedroom boredom. On his Sexual Intelligence Blog, his philosophy gives everyone the skills to improve their lovemaking.
6. The Gottman Institute: Love and Relationships
Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman are a married couple who also happen to be world-class psychologists. They have been at the forefront of relationship research, studying what keeps couples together.
Their Love and Relationships blog is full of tips on building lasting relationships. You’ll find advice on dating, sexual communication, and keeping desire alive as new parents.
7. Esther Perel Podcasts
Are you thinking of going to a sex therapist but anxious about it? Check out Esther’s podcast Where Should We Begin? and get a feel for what couples’ counseling is all about.
Dr. Perel is a therapist and best-selling author who writes about desire and infidelity. In the podcast, you can follow stories of real life couples.
Sexual incompatibility, erectile dysfunction — you name it. Listening to the sessions will give you hope that you can overcome your sexual problems.
8. Amaze
If you’re a heterosexual man who never got sex education in school, you may feel a bit lost in the labirynth of female anatomy. Where’s that famous G-spot? Is this thing I’m touching a clitoris? Why is she not getting wet?
Amaze was designed as a resource for kids, teens, and their parents. Even if you don’t have children, watching the videos will give you confidence in the bedroom. It’s also a great source of information on contraception and safer sex practices.
If you’re a parent, this website will support you with answers to the dreaded “where do babies come from” question.
9. Arousibility
There’s a lot going on at this site, including information on masturbation, sex work, BSDM and fetishes, and much more. But where Arousibility really stands out is their articles about sex for people with disabilities.
If you or your partner lives with a disability or chronic pain, it may feel like there’s no way to enjoy good sex. It’s not true! Arousability offers articles on sexual techniques to minimize pain as well as sex toy reviews for people with physical limitations.
10. Kinsey Institute
If you’re a bit of a sex geek who wants to understand more than positions and techniques, Kinsey Institute is your go-to website. This academic institution has pioneered U.S. sex research since the 1940s!
The site’s Sex FAQ section features fascinating facts and statistics. You’ll find out what works for other people in the bedroom. For example, men who have sex with a partner they are in a relationship with report higher arousal and fewer problems, such as erectile dysfunction, compared to men who have sex with casual partners.
Another interesting (and useful) detail: Frequent kissing and cuddling leads to more sexual satisfaction.
11. TED Talks
TED talks are a global phenomenon. Its creators get the best scholars, changemakers, and creatives to share their “ideas worth spreading” via YouTube.
Today, the channel offers rich playlists devoted to sexuality on their Sex ED for Adults feature. Watch with your partner and start a discussion about your sex life. Highlights include: “What you didn’t know about penis anatomy” and “The secret to desire in a long-term relationship.”
12. BDSM Test
Do you sometimes get excited by adult films featuring leather outfits, spanking, or people being tied up to the bed? Many guys worry there’s something wrong with them if they think about something like that.
It’s OK to have nonstandard fantasies. The key to fulfilling your desires is finding a partner who also wants to try these out.
Take a free BDSM test to help you understand what you might enjoy. BDSM stands for Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism. You can choose a simplified or advanced version of the test.
The website includes descriptions of the main BDSM archetypes, so if you were wondering what a “submissive” or “master” is, this is the place to get started.
13. Lustzine
Let’s face it: most guys (and lots of women) watch porn. And yes, there’s tons of low-quality stuff out there, but not all porn is bad.
With Lustzine, Director Erika Lust proves that erotic films can be both inspiring and educational. Some of her explicit sex ed films, such as the guide to multiple orgasms, are available to watch for free. Others are available with a paid subscription. (Disclaimer: eDrugstore is in no way affiliated with Lustzine.)
14. OMGYES
Have you ever wondered, “What do women really like in bed”? No need to guess anymore. OMGYES collaborated in a large study asking women how they liked to be touched. One finding: Only 18.4 percent of females were able to orgasm through intercourse alone.
The study became the foundation of an educational website for women and their partners. If you use a mobile version of the site, your screen will turn into interactive female genitals that “move” when you stroke them. A woman’s voice will guide you, give corrections, and praise you when you’re doing it right. Now, that’s true hands-on sex ed!
There is a charge to purchase the treasure trove of information, but you’ll be getting a vast collection of tips, hundreds of videos, simulations, and interactive graphics, and instructions for dozens of techniques you never knew existed! We think you’ll feel it’s well worth the cost. (Disclaimer: eDrugstore is in no way affiliated with OMGYES.)
15. eDrugstore Blog
If you’re looking for expert tips and accurate, science-backed information about sexual health and treatments, look no further. Our blog covers men’s sexual health topics, from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation to sexuality after prostate surgery.
To get a prescription for ED medication, you can use our telemedicine services. Learn more about ED treatments here. Call 1-800-467-5146 for a free consultation with a licensed physician and get on track for better lovemaking.
Anka Grzywacz is a sexologist, reproductive health expert and Certified Sex Coach™. In her online practice she helps busy women and couples solve their intimate problems.